We broke up after 4 years because I am finally done giving him chance over chance to “change” (stupid I know) after him cheating for most of the relationship with his ex and emotionally/mentally abusing me. We have a daughter together and I’m expecting another baby. Which I’m now considered high risk and have to start seeing a specialist. Which I’ve told him about but all he does is talk about how depressed he is and how he wants his family back. Now that he knows I got a place.. (I moved back to my moms when I left him and he broke the lease too because he didn’t wanna be there alone cuz it “makes him sad”)

And honestly, He just irritates the shit out of me I cannot be around him without feeling irritated and stressed. I also don’t know how to just be like “move on we won’t ever get back together” because he keeps fucking trying to manipulate me and make me feel bad.

I constantly feel stressed when he’s messaging me and blowing up my damn phone talking about his “problems”

Also, he will also bring up how his family is “mad at him” and how he’s gotta find a new place cuz he’s staying between his mom and sister place... and how he might end up having to stay with another girl.