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He's making it all about him🙄
I just don’t know what to even say to this shit..
We broke up after 4 years because I am finally done giving him chance over chance to “change” (stupid I know) after him cheating for most of the relationship with his ex and emotionally/mentally abusing me. We have a daughter together and I’m expecting another baby. Which I’m now considered high risk and have to start seeing a specialist. Which I’ve told him about but all he does is talk about how depressed he is and how he wants his family back. Now that he knows I got a place.. (I moved back to my moms when I left him and he broke the lease too because he didn’t wanna be there alone cuz it “makes him sad”)
And honestly, He just irritates the shit out of me I cannot be around him without feeling irritated and stressed. I also don’t know how to just be like “move on we won’t ever get back together” because he keeps fucking trying to manipulate me and make me feel bad.
I constantly feel stressed when he’s messaging me and blowing up my damn phone talking about his “problems”
Also, he will also bring up how his family is “mad at him” and how he’s gotta find a new place cuz he’s staying between his mom and sister place... and how he might end up having to stay with another girl.
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I was literally dealing with the same thing and almost same story but it got to the point of my ex stressing me out so badly I nearly went into labor I’m just now 24w1d and so I blocked him completely and I’ve been good since blocking him two weeks ago. I tried to be nice and let him be part of my daughters life but he continued to cause issues and with me being high risk he put her life in danger so I did what I had to and completely shut him out.
You need to be like "look its over. I dont want to talk to you unless it's about our children. That I need to care for my children and myself now. You had your chances and you fucked it up. I am done playing these mind games and it always being about you. I will contact you if you want to go to any appointments or anything to do with the kids. Bye"
This is me right now
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I feel ya. I’m 30 weeks and have nothing but stress. So done with it. So hard to move when you’re pregnant and have a 2 year old. And he does nothing to help with her. Barely goes to work. Sick of bs. Just know it’s for the best. And maybe he’ll open his eyes to what he’s losing
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