SO insensitive to pain with sex?

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Sex has been painful for the last 2months not to mention I have had zero sex drive my entire pregnancy. My husband doesn’t seem to understand and it’s constantly a discussion. I explain how i feel and he says “I understand now and won’t bring it up” and then within 48hrs he’s telling me how he misses he and wants to be together tonight. So I explain myself again. I swear it’s like the movie Groundhog Day! I get it he has needs but damn. Being pregnant I make sacrifices for 9 months and I’m just asking for him to be understanding for this last few weeks. At this point I’m in pain every time and not even enjoying sex... I guess I’m venting/ looking for someone who can relate not to mention I have a 16yr old and 18mo old I chase around while working 40hrs a week too

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Having the same problem! Zero sex drive and when we do, it hurts so badly during and after. On the rare occasion we do anything, it’s mostly for him because I feel bad. He’s always guilt tripping me and I feel like he couldn’t possibly understand how I feel unless he grew a fetus himself!! Only 9 more weeks until Baby!!

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My husband hasn’t had sex with me since August!!! Since we found out i was pregnant! I don’t even remember what it’s like anymore lol 😂 I wish he would I’ve begged and begged for our anniversary in November for Christmas for my birthday for Valentine’s Day and get shut down Everytime! He says he doesn’t wanna screw anything up so he doesn’t even try

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Honestly I’d stop discussing it if you’ve discussed it before and nothing has changed. Next time tell him “honey, we’ve talked about this and I’m tired of repeating myself.” 
If that’s a little too final you could add something like, let’s try talking about this again next week but not until then.

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Maybe try doing other things for him since penetration hurts for you. I’m 32 weeks pregnant and I haven’t had sex in about a month just no sex drive at all. I give my hubby a hj bj once in a while so he’s somewhat satisfied. I cannot wait to have sex again not pregnant.

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I hit other as my husband wont have sex with me. I'm sorry that your SO wont be more understanding!

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Same issue. I bought my husband a flashlight to help him thru the next two months. It hoe stay took me having such bad cramps during sex that it was painful for him for it to sink in that sex hurts lol

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I’m on pelvic rest so we literally can’t have sex. Hubby is very understanding. He knows that if I feel up to it I will offer him some other things instead but he doesn’t ask and doesn’t expect anything. We complain about it together.

SO insensitive to pain with sex?

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