How to deal with people judging you for not wanting kids or telling things like

"You'll grow out of it" "it's just a phase" "you don't know until you have one"

Both my man and I don't want kids we have discussed it for so long.

He grew up having to take care of his sister's kids and he had to start working at 14 to help his parents.

I on my side just can't handle the noises or whatever kids do.

Sorry if my post is long I just need advices also I don't know if it's the right group to post that in.