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I don't understand what I have done to deserve this. My husband has been gone all weekend with his brother and dad. He comes home. Says his brother wants us to come over for dinner even though my husband already said we would go to Walmart and get some baby shopping done. Baby is either coming this week or next so I really want it done. I said okay, we can go, but I want to go to Walmart first. And I get cussed out. Told I'm fucking annoying and just won't stop cussing at me and absolutely freaking out. He hasn't even been home for three hours. I am so hurt. I just don't understand what I've done.

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Y’all read. Her husband just came home after being gone with his fam and then talked to her like shit. 
It’s not okay for him to speak to you that way. Time for a serious sit down talk and if he can’t do that maturely then it’s time for you to decide what your next steps are.

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Verbal abuse is never okay. No one deserves to be treated like that. Ever.

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First of all, there is absolutely no excuse for him to put you down or insult you. That is not OK!!! If I were you, I would talk to him about this at a time when you are both calm and tell him that you absolutely will not tolerate being disrespected like that. He needs to speak to you respectfully and calmly, even when he disagrees with you. 
Second of all, he already said he would be going to Walmart with you to get the baby stuff, and now he wants to change his plans. It’s good to be flexible, but Baby is going to be here in less than a week and he’s already spent the entire weekend with his brother. There’s no reason why he shouldn’t do what he said he’s going to do with you first.

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I wouldn't say you have done anything to deserve this because no one deserves this.. but by staying with a man who is verbally abusive you have allowed it to continue happening, and that is why it continues to happen.
Not because you deserve it, but because you stay.

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Sounds like it’s a habit you’ve allowed to continue

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A man will only do what you allow him to do. Stand up for yourself and put your foot down. Let him get a taste of what it’s like without you for a few hours and see how he likes it. You better than me cause I woulda packed my shit and left pregnant and all. Men need to understand we don’t NEED them but we as women WANT them.

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Are you the same person that posted about your s.o leaving for the weekend with his dad/brother and not coming back even if you went in labor? 
If yes, again leave him. He’s abusive.
If a different person, sit down and have a serious talk with him. Being cussed at is abusive and toxic. If it doesn’t change I would leave.

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Maybe because his brothers visit was unexpected? I see your point and he shouldn’t have freaked out but today was not the day to ask. Is he staying over for a few days or just coming over for dinner? Why can’t you go tomorrow?

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