I met this guy on tinder and we are having our first date on Friday.

He is taking me to the bars and he will be drinking from what he told me and he asked if he can stay over at my place...

I don’t know this guy and I feel super uncomfortable having a stranger stay in my apartment especially since I live alone.

He’s made comments about kissing me so all of this just feels like he is setting up a hook up because he isn’t even taking me out to a restaurant...

How do I respond?