I've come to realize something or at least think about something more. I'm 23 and was in a very serious relationship the last two-and-a-half years of my life. I was in a very negative abusive relationship and am finally free of that for almost a year in April. What I've come to realize is now that my cousin has had a baby, my body is starting to create that baby fever feeling. I know I want kids at least one baby, but I don't really want to get married... It sounds weird actually saying it out loud I had a whole conversation to myself about it the pros and the cons I just want to know if anyone else thinks about this you want a child but you don't want to spouse? Is it strange to want this? Is anyone else feeling this way? I'm sure I can't be the only one! Thanks ladies( and a few gents)