Why can family be so annoying!

Me and my husband will be finding out what we are having in April. We have a 6 yr old girl already. So all these relative who only bother to see are daughter every 4 months are all like we hope it’s a boy. Like I cant help what it is let’s just be happy we got pregnant it took 3 yrs! I just want everything to be good for the baby whatever it is is fine with me!