Situation is - boyfriend kicked me out, as I was leaving he threw a hat my dad gave him (sentimental gift) at me and said “have this back, your dad gave it to the wrong man”. He’s now asking for it back as he “made a mistake”. We’re still broken up and he’s sent me many many nasty, spiteful messages and still expects me to come chat to him. He’s been taking out his anger and frustration on me, one minute I’m a selfish bitch, the next he loves me and wants me back. I’m not going back, but I don’t think it’s right he expects me to do nice things for him when he treats me like shit and tries to manipulate me.