My baby shower theme denied.

Before I knew the gender of my baby I decided on a you are my sunshine theme ..simply because that’s the way I feel about the baby . My child’s father argued with me so much about it because after finding out we are having a boy he’s saying that theme is girly and gay ..so we are going to do Tonka trucks and a construction zoned theme instead ..I went on Facebook and saw a couple who is also having a boy did the sunshine theme and I have been crying ever since .....