So I’m currently just overly stressed and a bit depressed. My husband and I have been ttc for almost two years. I’ve been on fertility treatments for 8 months and we aren’t getting anywhere and can’t afford other fertility treatments. So we are about to start the adoption process. Well in order for us to adopt we have to be married and have our license. Well we got married 4 weeks ago and still haven’t gotten the license back yet. So we can’t even go get an interview until we get the license. I’m also trying to get the house super organized and ready for when we have a home study. But we can’t get three rooms done until after we get our garage done so I can have shelves for one room. Well we also have been struggling to find time and waiting for the weather to give us one good day for our garage. On top of all this I’m planning our wedding ceremony because we couldn’t have one til June. Well my mom is causing issues and stressing me out more about how much she hates my dad’s side of the family and how she doesn’t want to be around them. My dad has been the only one who said he will make sure the family behaves. My sister is throwing a fit that dad and his family will be there too. Everyone from my family is coming in from out of state and they all hate each other and i don’t know if they can be around each other and put their shit aside for three days while they are all in town. Also have to deal with my husband’s ex wife because once she hears we are married she is probably gonna start problems with him again. Last time she came to our house to bitch him out and try to see me. I have not met her but she has made it hell for us every time we take a step forward in our relationship. The reason we can’t just completely cut her out of ours lives yet is because my husband still has to pay for her car and her car insurance due to their divorce decree, we have three more yrs til that damn car is paid off. I’m am just so stressed out and don’t know what the hell i’m going to do about anything.