Unwanted

My man and I have been together almost 2 years and we love each other very much. Sadly, it seems he only wants me when he drinks. We do have sex when we are sober but it's not the same. I feel like he thinks it's more of a chore. When he drinks, it's the complete opposite. I've always had body issues but he's always done and said things to help me overcome them but when he seems bored, the body issues come back. I just don't know what to do. If I bring it up I'm sure it'll turn into a fight. There is no winning I guess .