well im not sure if I can.. I knew he came with a son whom we have about 4days out of the week. His son is Soo spoiled it REALLY makes me question and get cold feet. I used to think "it'll be different with our kids" since im more structured and grew up disciplined. His son hits him, gets his way 97%of the time, teachers even questioned us on what type of discipline he receives since its obvious he isnt receiving any. It frustrates me because it shows Alot about him as a father and partner . I feel like I have no say as im not his mom (btw, their co-parenting is another dysfunctional situation I dont even have time to get in) but they lack communication on HOW to raise him. And speaking of communication, its Frustrating when I Try to approach the situation or kindly give advice but he doesnt even give feedback or just ignores it and tries to make up for his son's behavior. Im HONESTLY becoming afraid as we are soo close to making it offical and TTC , its like I tell him how I feel but he brushes it off.. i dont know if I'm looking for comments but really had to vent as I have been feeling some type of way all day. I truly do love him and see us having a family, I just wish he would organize and discipline the child he already has😔😔😔🙏