Should I bring up that I'm still upset or just let it go
My birthday was 10 days ago. My boyfriend ruined it. He got mad at me at like 6:30 in the morning because I told him I had to get off the phone because I was at work and had to do something job related and he said I was selfish because of that. He never tried to salvage the day. And from there just got angrier with me over little things. He ended up calling me evil and said I deserved to spend my birthday alone after ignoring my calls and texts for hours. I did end up going to his place that night but it might as well not had been my birthday. I bought a bottle of wine, got there and cleaned up then warmed up the food, made our plates. I didn't even get a card. He didn't even say happy birthday when I was there.
I still can't believe he hasn't tried to make it up. But I'm afraid if I say anything about still being hurt that he will just get angry and say I'm trying to be negative. The thing is he ruined my birthday similarly last year. He got mad with me over something small that morning and argued and said mean things to me all day. The difference is he at least apologized that night and still gave me a gift and card.
I always make sure I make him feel special on his birthday. I don't ask for much. I just wanted to feel a little special. And even when I tried to plan an outing for it 2 days later he wouldn't cooperate. I don't know if I should just move on and hope for more positive days or say something and risk him just getting mad.
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