My boyfriend taught me something valuable today

I had two VERY toxic relationships in my past which included being cheated on, looked down on, and just overall not appreciated at all. I ended up with low self esteem and severe trust issues. It’s taken me some time but I have slowly recovered from the damage and I’m doing my best to remind myself I don’t deserve shitty testament.

Now, I think I met my soulmate. We connected from day one and I really believe he is the one. He compliments me, cherishes me, and goes out of his way to make me happy. He even notices my nail color when I change it. He always remembers the small things I mention like what chocolate I like and what little things I enjoy. I’m just so in love I have to tell someone.

Today, I went to his place and saw he set me as his phone wallpaper. It may sound so generic but I have never actually had a boyfriend who did that and who treats me this well. I’m back home now and I’m crying because I am so sad about tolerating everything I did in my past

My boyfriend has taught me to never settle and only accept the treatment you know you deserve.

Ladies, please. If he lies to you, hurts you, and/or doesn’t cherish you: he doesn’t deserve you. You deserve so much better and I just wanted to remind you of that.

❤️