Anyone else have to beg their partner for sex?

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It literally takes me a week to finally get my partner to have sex with me. Like he says he’s lazy and to tired but then stays up and plays video game or is on his phone or anything. It makes me feel like he doesn’t find me attractive anymore or that I’m not good enough or something. We went from sex twice a day to sex once a day to sex once every second day then to sex once a week to now sex twice a month of at all and that’s in a 2 year span of our relationship. 
Tell me how y’all deal with it because I’m going crazy.

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Honestly I would just self satisfy and let him come to you. Men love to chase women so just you do you girl 😊

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Hell no. My dh told me he would never turn me down. So every night we don’t have sex (we do it almost every night) he will ask if I want it before he falls asleep. Or he’ll wake up & ask me. 
First man ever I’ve been w who is this way tho. None of the others could keep up w me & it made me feel bad. Something about a man desiring you so much, is just the best feeling.

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I'm in the same exact boat. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like we only have sex on his terms or when it's convenient for him. We used to have sex all the time, but the last several years I have to beg for it. It makes me feel so ugly and alone. I just wish I knew what to do to make him be all over me. The sex is great when we finally do have sex. I just don't understand.

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Someone else posted this awhile ago. But yes I know the feeling its currently been over a week and he also plays video games all night on the weekends 🙃🤪 but he also doesn't like sex to be planned out then he feels like it's a chore witch is understandable, I to like the excitment. But damn its hard

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I’m the one with the nonexistent sex drive

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I wish my husband wanted it less, since having my daughter 11 months ago, I've come to hate sex, I guess its due to my body changing, he constantly wanted to have sex I didn't, so I gave him head instead, and now he likes head but of course I gave it up tough in my fertile window for 7 months and now were pregnant lol, I'd stop approaching him cause lord knows I dont my husband and he always wants it, hopefully it works for ur situation as well

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i went through the same thing. he made up excuses like that and said he only did it because i wanted it. made me feel like he didn’t find me attractive and one day i saw him messaging his ex gf and i tried to leave him and said he would change and do more stuff with me but that was a year ago and now i’m with someone who loves me and thinks i’m beautiful no matter what and we’re having a baby

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Just don’t even beg 🤷🏼‍♀️ if he can’t give it to you, he’s missing out on pleasure so his loss. You can get yourself a toy or learn some techniques to make yourself feel good

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same but i dont beg or ask anymore because it makes me feel like im not worthy so i keep myself busy with homework & watching my shows as well

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It was like this with my ex, I was with him for three years.  At first we had sex all the time, then it suddenly just stopped.  Out of the blue.  He would occasionally try to have sex with me, but then he couldn't ever cum, which bothered me even more.  Maybe you need to just ask him bluntly.  Because being "lazy" sounds like an excuse to me.  Perhaps he has something else going on that's bothering him?

Anyone else have to beg their partner for sex?

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