Hardships in marriage..

Husband and I have had a lot of hardships through out our year of being married. Most being related to me having to move across the United States to live with him and his two sons..

it’s been a huge adjustment trying to find my place in this new city and it’s been overall kinda a culture shock..

where I was I had a home and a business that I successfully ran.. here I am a nobody and I’m a poverty area where there is hardly any opportunity..

I’ve tried being employed and hated it..

I tried going back to school and hated it..

I was happy with being my own boss and being independent and successful.. it was a big part of me.

It’s caused a lot of rift raft in our first year of marriage. Sometimes I would say I just want to go back and even tho I’m with my soul mate it’s not worth my well-being being so unhappy.

We’ve said things to each other that we shouldn’t have like divorce or separation but we never went thought with it..

We are in a better place now that we have decided to move back. But people on the outside are concerned about are stability as a married couple and it’s really got me down and out.. I know what they think shouldn’t matter to me especially because they haven’t been in our shoes.

How can I feel better about this?