My husband and i like the name Isabella

BUT my aunt has a daughter named Isabella and she never gets to see her, (long story) her daughter lives in the Carolinas and we live in Ohio. But my husband wants to name her Isabella Bella for short. And when I told him that's my cousins name I seen the hurt in his eyes. I feel bad if I name my girl Isabella Because my aunt had been through a lot with not seeing her daughter. Please help with names close to that. He doesn't like Gabriela. 😭 We were so set on Olivia but I just think of olives when I say that name. And I liked the name Teagan Kinsley but my girlfriends don't think it flow at all I can't think of a decent middle name. I loved Tinsley Meadow but he HATED that name. Our last name is Austin. We have a boy name picked out if we have a boy and it's Malcolm Kingsley Austin. Please help... his mother wants us to name our girl landra and our boy Jaxon but we don't like those names.