Vent time

I’m so sick of friends and family telling me I’m not a good wife.

The other day my moms friends came down to see my son. He’s a month old but was in the nicu for the first 15 days. Some how we got on the subject of dog baths and i pay someone to do it because my 70 lbs German Shepherd there is no way i can wash. Then the part about my house not always being clean came up(like a few dishes in the sink and some laundry not done) these people told me that my husband would go to a female who did those things and there are better women out there. Like wtf dude my husbands happy and content. (My husband wasn’t there so he couldn’t defend me) like really it pisses me off it really hurt my self esteem as a wife 😢 i just had a baby and already emotional and hormonal i don’t need to be told my husband is gonna go get better too. Plus we are still in the 6 wk wait so my husband is already sexually frustrated so it’s on my mind that he could go get someone i know he won’t but it still hurts to think that i know he can 😢💔💔