Oops I peed again

So I need help! After i had my daughter I have been having a hard time holding in my pee. Its like everytime i cough snezze jump laugh to hard or even blink to hard I pee. This is a little embarrassing for me its gotten so bad that when my man and I of a year have sex and i accidentally cough or he goes hard i pee and at first it didnt bug him but now he is loosing his hard. And its affecting my sex life we went from having sexy almost everyday to 9nly having sex once or twice every 2 to 3 weeks and I love having sex with him. So my question is how do I eaither stop peeing while having sex or do something to make it less or something. I JUST NEED HELP I MISS HAVING SEX WITH HIM ALL THE TIME!!!! Idk it makes me feel like i am not attractive to him anymore