What makes you feel sexy?

Cause I don’t and I haven’t for a long time. It’s no other person’s fault but I just don’t have that feeling. My husband and I have been together for almost 14 years and married for 11 of those years. He tells me all the time that I beautiful, pretty, sexy, etc. but I don’t feel it. I remember when that glorious feeling when we started dating and I felt so damn hot. I was living my best life. My husband was so strong and in control. 🔥🔥🔥🔥 He’s soften a lot over the years. Doesn’t initiated foreplay unless I ask for it. I never used to have to do that. I mean sometimes a girl wants to be bent over the kitchen counter, butt slapped and fingered just because everyone wants to make her feel good. I’ve asked and asked and he doesn’t take the hint. 😔

Then there’s the fact I just keep getting more and more down about babies. We’ve been trying for 2 years and nothing. I see all my exes have babies and I’m still waiting on mine. I don’t want a relationship with them but when I get down like this my mind wanders I wonder if I would have babies by now if I was with them. But I don’t want to be with them. I want to be with my husband.

How can I get that sexy back? 😩