big sigh

Soo when i’m having sex with my bf i try to rub my clit and he’s like can you move your hand? he also licks my clit way too harsh sometimes and i tell him that (i’m not one or sit there if i have an issue i’ll speak up for sure) and if he hits a good spot and i tell him to stay there he never does for long and i never get close to cumming. i haven’t ever came during sex and i always verbalize what i what him to do but he’s like “i’ve got this baby.” So i ordered a small clit vibrator and i told him i’m using it next time during sex. he’s made comments before when i talk about sex toys that all i need is his dick. but men don’t realize 70% of women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm during sex. like it’s not hard and i’m beginning to resent him for not making me cum cuz i always communicate what i want. sex isn’t everything but i feel like it’s still important to be in the same page. fuck it i’m gonna get mine too idc if he is annoyed by it is gonna use it. when will guys realize that toys don’t replace them but rather enhance the entire experience? There has been an orgasm gap for way too long ladies lol! It’s annoying trying to explain to him but i feel like he is slowing starting to listen. it’s just aggy🙄