Surgery

I recently found out that I need a hysterectomy. I'm the primary care giver to my 2 children. I have a fiance that is very involved with our children and their lives. (My son that's older more than my daughter that's 3)

I'm trying to line up sitters and people to help me with my kids while healing, and well while I'm at the hospital. My fiance would rather work than either be with our children or be at the hospital with me. (He has PTO so money isn't a factor)

Am I wrong for feeling hurt? For feeling like I'm not a priority?