Honest answers please

You can make yourself anonymous! 
I'm 5 wks pregnant and already concerned with the birthing process! All my close friends had to have c-sections along with my mother and mother in law so I have no one to ask. 
For those of you who experienced natural birth and only have 1 child...what is the situation 'down there?'
My husband says my 'area' is pretty perfect and I'm concerned it will be destroyed after natural delivery. Does it goes back to normal? Is the husband stitch helpful? 
I'm hoping for a safe and natural delivery but am just curious about the aftermath. Any comments appreciated.