I am married. I love my husband very much and he’s a wonderful partner and spouse.

I have a coworker. He’s attractive and a nice person. We joke around a lot and get along. He has a girlfriend and a baby.

I think we kind of have crushes on each other. I would never cross that boundary for obvious reasons (plus, getting in a relationship with a coworker is messy! And it’s not worth ruining my marriage.) but it’s just so weird to have these feelings and suppress them.

I guess it’s nice to get attention and feel good about myself. But again, I’ll never do anything with him.