Venting.SAHM.sad.

I’m a FTM, and I recently decided to become a SAHM. Husband of 11 years was ok with it and now he is flipping out about bills. He used to want me to work part time at night, go to college, raise the baby during the day. I said no I can’t because he doesn’t help with the housework or dinners I do ALL the housework and cook. Now he told me today that I’m ruining our son’s future & that he’ll have nothing growing up. So I’ve been crying for hours needless to say because I feel like I do it all and being told that really hurt me. We can’t afford daycare for an infant even if both of us are working. This was the best option. If it meant less going out to eat then fine I can do that. I canceled any extra subscriptions to help save money, I don’t know what else to do. I feel like I have it under control with the bills & money. I’ll be getting my 401k money from my job as well that I can set aside. I just feel so lost now, I thought everything was ok. I thought he was on board with me staying home, and now that I’ve actually quit, I feel like he hates me. 😞☹️😢