UPDATE TO MY POST ABOUT HIS 8 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER RUINING OUR RELATIONSHIP!!! UPADTED TO YOUR REPSONSES

Okay so I made a post couple days ago about my boyfriends 8 year daughter calling me nasty names and putting nair in my body wash and also putting whole milk in my soy milk to which I am allergic to cows milk so I ended up in the hospital since I was nonstop vomiting and having diarrhea. 2 days ago I took advice and starting recording her she didn’t say much to me that day and plus it was Sunday so she usually leaves around 6 pm to go back to her moms from then until Thursday but the last hour of her there we were in the kitchen while my boyfriend was cleaning out his car for us to leave to drop her off and she called me a bitch and asked if that could have killed me and I said it could have if I didn’t stop vomiting and having diarrhea since that can dehydrate you and that can cause death. She had the nerve to tell me to make sure I check my milk next time that she would hate to see me die and I asked her if she did it and she said so what if I did it my daddy will find someone way better plus I have a mommy. I didn’t say nothing I just went to the next room to stop recording and couldn’t believe that she even admitted to it and was still shocked about what she said and is basically saying she will do it again or something worse! We drop her off at her mothers and got back to my boyfriends and I showed him the recording he looked very surprised and said when he gets her after school Thursday that we all will sit down and talk about the situation and had asked me to delete the recording because if a wrong person hears it then it can get his daughter in trouble I said no that I’m not doing that and he needs to have a talk with his baby mama to end all of this because her mother is the one planting shit in her head since I doubt a 8 year old would know to do stuff like this. He refuses and said he’s going to bed I started to pack my bags and said I’m leaving and I can’t put myself through this again he tries to stop me and grabs my arm but I push him off of me and run to my car luckily I had my car keys in my hand. So yesterday, Monday I called his baby mama to talk to her because this is ridiculous and I need answers on why she would ever have her daughter do this and she agreed and said she was waiting for the day to be alone with me to “talk” I asked her why she didn’t do it for the last year that me and my boyfriend had been dating and she claimed that my boyfriend would have never allowed that to happen because she had been with him for 10 years and knows him inside and out. We sit down for lunch and I am ready to start yelling at her for the disgusting thing she planted in her daughters head and the danger it had put me in Sunday morning. She apologizes and said this was the only way that would make me leave him and I asked her why. she seemed very scared to tell me at first so now I’m getting worried about what’s going to come out of her mouth. She tells me that he is very abusive and she had dealt with it for the last 9 years of their relationship when they was dating and had also got physical with her a couple of times after their relationship had ended. I am very surprised because my boyfriend seemed to sweet and loving to ever be that type of person and I told her how she is crazy or maybe he changed because he has never shown any type of abuse in our relationship she then tells me that it’s because of their daughter was pretty much delaying him to being a abusive. She told me that when he gets into a relationship he will put on a front that he is the perfect man ever and he is not that type of way then after a few months of dating he will start being controlling about friends then family then controlling on what to wear and how to talk then he will start calling names and shaming your body then it will turn into physical abuse she said some days he would come home from work and she was sitting on the couch watching tv and since she wasn’t at the door ready to cater to him that he would come and suffocate her with the nearest pillow and leave it there until she started shaking because she was going to pass out then he would lift the pillow up and start slapping her and punching her in the face and head and continued to ask her why she wasn’t at the door and that he would do it for a good 5 minutes which felt like forever to her. I’m so disgusted at this point and actually disgusted even writing this right now. I started crying because there was worse stories and she ended up in the hospital numerous times but she never said anything because if she did then she was afraid he would kill her she then said luckily he didn’t want her anymore that he was tired of looking at her everyday and he wanted someone new and better so she got to get out of the relationship easily they then stated to co parent. After couple months they stopped dating he found someone new and they dated for 7 months and he was very abusive to the girl that he accidentally knocked her out from hitting her head with a lamp and she had to go the hospital and get stitches since he bashed it open and she called the cops and pressed charges he only served 90 days in jail and has two years of probation!!! I couldn’t believe it he still should be in jail! Anyways once he gets out of jail he gets a new girlfriend and his baby momma knew the same thing was going to happen so she would set her daughter up to get the girlfriend to leave so their daughter would harass his last girlfriend he had before we started dating and after about 2 months she left since he wouldn’t believe her and believed his daughter over it and the reason why was because he was scared of his daughter going to her mothers to tell on him and he would then think that his baby momma would get involved into their relationship and tell the girlfriends about his past he has. Their daughter doesn’t know that he is abusive piece of shit!! I asked her why she lets him have his daughter at all and she said if she didn’t then she would probably be dead because she did try to warn his ex girlfriend twice (who he had put into the hospital) and he came over to his baby mommas house and beat her up for it but of course the first ex girlfriend didn’t believe her but in his mind he was afraid of the daughter going to the mother and the mother telling his girlfriend about him and they would leave but that ex girlfriend didn’t but doesn’t mean his future girlfriends won’t. Anyways she said when he got with me that she wasn’t sick for 2 months she was just figuring out my schedule to find a way to talk to me to get out of this relationship but I have a very busy schedule that isn’t a 9-5 job Monday through Friday my schedule is all over the place and yes she was pretty much stalking me lol and so once she got their daughter back and got back on their co parent schedule she then would tell her daughter to start calling me names but that didn’t make me leave and she said I was a tough one so she had to take these measures to get me out of the relationship. I still yelled at her for having her 8 year old daughter say these nasty things to other people and almost killed me and put me in danger!! She said she didn’t mean to but she had to do something to get me out but couldn’t come talk to me because both me and her could have got hurt by him. I blocked his number and wish he was in jail right now I am beyond disgusted!!!!!! I don’t want this happening to any other women but I don’t know how to stop him since he never has been abusive towards me at all thanks to his daughter even though it could have been done a different way without endangering my life but I am happy that I didn’t stay!! I just wish there was something I could do so he can’t do this to any other women!

UPDATE:

You guys this is true to what I’m saying. She brought all the hospital documents with her name on it and the date it happened and also what happened and the discharge papers and showed me pictures of her face when he would hit her and showed me ugly nasty bruises all over her arms from him grabbing her to tight and she has an iPhone so I can see the date it happened and the location to which the location shows it’s his house!! She said she wished she had showed me pictures of when he really would get her but he would keep deleting the pictures because he didn’t want no evidence but these pictures she does have are the last ones at the end of their relationship. I don’t really care if you guys believe this or not but it is sad that you would dismiss a victim of abuse and call her bullshit. I looked up his name to see if he was arrested and he indeed was for domestic violence and others things as well but once I saw that it was enough for me to believe his baby momma also I had asked her what the ex girlfriend name is and she gave me the name so I went on Facebook to reach out to her and still waiting on a response.