Extreme panic attacks 1st trimester

So I've always had anxiety (never too bad) but ever since I got pregnant I've been having full blown panic attacks to the point where I start hyperventilating and just sobbing for hours and then my stomach starts cramping. I know it's not good for the baby. It only happens when people in my family or my fiance are mean or rude to me. Even if my fiance says the slightest thing I'll go straight into panic mode and will just lose it. I've tried explain to everyone what has been going on with me and have tried asking them to please be cautious of my feelings because I know panic attacks are not good for the baby especially with how much they've been happening and how frequent. But nobody seems to care and I just don't know what to do . I've never experienced anything like this before and its been extremely hard to deal with. I'm not sure what to do . Has anybody else ever experienced this only during pregnancy and has anyone found a working solution? This had been causing a lot of issues for me. My fiance is a hypochondriac and is always freaking out about something and I just cant deal with it right now . I don't know how to make him stop and I don't know how to make this stop.