I’m kinky but my boyfriends not

Megan

Ok so back in the day I used to be kinky as hell lol still kinda am to an extent but my boyfriend is not he had past girls openly into kinky stuff and he said it made him weirded out but during sex he kinda pulls my hair and chokes me a little I think he’s just trying to please me but how do I tell him without literally telling him cuz it’s awkward and I don’t want him to feel like he has to do something. Sorry for the long paragraph lol