Advice needed!

My husband and I have been TTC baby #1 for 4 months now, so let me make it clear that I am not trying to trick him into getting pregnant or being sneaky by any means.

I know I am totally baby crazy and the last few months I have made a big deal about my fertile week and I can tell it bothers it. I finally asked him if it was that he didn't want to get pregnant or what the deal was.

He said it just totally stresses him when I push that we need to BD every other day instead of just letting it happen. I am thinking that maybe this cycle I just won't say anything but initiate the BD myself and see if that helps???

Has anyone else had this issue and how did you handle it? I don't want it to seem like I'm being sneaky but I also don't want to make getting pregnant stressful and a chore and I know that's how he's feeling.