Idk how to feel

So me and my boyfriend have known each other for 3 years now and I can honestly say I’m very comfortable around him but when it comes to us having sex idk what happens idk if I’m in my head or if there’s really just something wrong. But I’ve never had an orgasm when we have sex it feels amazing like really amazing but I can never have an orgasm from penetration he recently has figured out how to rub my clit the right way after much needed coaching and that’s how he gets me to orgasm now but that’s the only way I can’t even orgasm from his oral. Even before he learned to the right way to rub my clit I never orgasmed with him at all..so I honestly don’t know how to feel or what

to think I’m attracted to him completely but I just don’t orgasm..please tell me I’m not the only person who experiences this and that there’s a solution. 😫