so my aunt who’s been a life long smoker and has copd lives with us. she doesn’t clean up after herself (it’s really bad) and my mom doesn’t clean it up either which leaves my dad or i to do it.. usually me. she is on oxygen and can go anywhere in the house. she can make her own food but instead she chooses to have me do it because all she wants to do is lay in bed all day or sleep. if i were to say something about it to my mom she would lose her shit.. it’s just annoying and i don’t really have another choice.