Is it me?

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My husband and I have been married since November. Since we have been married every night when he gets home from work he gets on the computer to play video games. I eat alone, I sleep alone, the only time I ever see him is at work when I stop by.... I just don't feel like he is attracted to me any more. I don't know if I did something... it is just killing me... sorry for my pity party among the good things that are going on.

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Talk to him. Tell him how you feel and see if there are changes you can both make. It’s important to have an option line of communication especially this early on

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My marriage started the same way. He "had" me. He won the top level and got the prize do the stopped slaying dragons.... I'd love to tell you it got better when I told him how I felt but it didn't. He made me feel guilty and said he was not good enough for me even though the only thing I ever asked for was for him to be the person he was when I married him...
 I got more lonely and eventually suicidal and after a huge battle, I gave up and stopped trying to care for myself. I gave up on trying to bother living and became the "perfect wife" no soul.... Robotic. I asked him one day if get was still in love with me ... He said "I don't know and to me honest, I don't know if I have been for a long time." I responded with "how long?" He stated " five years" (at this point we had been married for 5 and together for 8). After he asked for a divorce and I agreed to a disillusionment... After all I still loved him when he if he hadnt loved me for years... I found it he was a sleeping with my best friend and had been having an emotional affair for 2 years with hundreds on whisper then a physical one with her.
I'd like to say.... It can get better but... I can't by  my own experience. I lost my 20s and though I'm with a wonderful man now, I'm 32 and still be haven't started a family I hoped to have already.
You only get one life... Live it well.

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Did you wait to live together until you were married? He’s just living his regular life now. You live together. Every night won’t be like it was when you were dating and didn’t live together. When we first moved in, my now husband wanted to always be talking. He’s just doing what he would normally be doing to relax.

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Is he stressed or has a lot going on? My husband does the same the with his Xbox when he is stressed or bothered by something. Won't pay me no never mind.

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This is not normal! You need to communicate to him that you are unhappy and you SHARE a life together now. He is living life as a bachelor  when he should be putting effort into loving you. The longer you wait the more difficult it will be to address. I've been through this too but now my partner and I could not be happier. Communication is the key to shifting this kind of pattern.

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Same issue here. Except its not gaming. ..... I recently got hold of his phone his browser history is full of gay porn......  I'm lost and confused we have been together since 2010 married in 2012

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