Never horny.. but I want to have sex?

I have little to no sex drive.. but I'd like to have one.. Additionally, I rarely masturbate, maybe 1-4 times a month. Is this normal for someone who is nearly 20? I don't know.

I met this really nice guy who I would actually really like to do sexual things with, which I have never done before.. but I don't think I have the sex drive for it.

Is there any way I can make my sex drive higher, or make myself hornier..?

I apologize if this is a dumb question. x

Edit: bc I can't reply anonymously, I am replying up here. I am not on birth control so that isn't an issue