Should I chop my hair?! 😳🤔🤷🏻‍♀️

I’ve tossed around the idea of cutting my hair, but it’s been my “security blanket” for so many years.. so I haven’t fully committed. Doesnt help that I had a horrific hair cut once (I looked like an adolescent boy going through puberty, I kid you not) so my anxiety of big cuts has also prevented me from ever fully committing. To top it off, I’m afraid that instead of hearing “it looks so good!” I’ll endlessly hear “whyyy did you cut your hair?!”.. which, obviously wouldn’t make me feel too secure. What people say shouldn’t matter, 😩 I know, but i won’t lie- I’m insecure af so 🤷🏻‍♀️ it does to me unfortunately.