Im so counfused

So im in a unhealthy relationship my boyfriend of 4 years. And my boyfrind dont work and is still living with his dad and mom at 26. He dont support emotionally. And he said i owe him money for the phone bill we fight almost everyday. He blames me for everything and says i told you so to me And this guy i i was with back in middle school has a place and a job and he still has feelings for me and im worth the time to wait so i can think about some stuff idk what to do 😕😞☺ i want a family and a man who can support me 100% and not lie to me all the time