🤫Top Secret 🤫

So I told my husband that I’d like to keep the birth of our baby to a small announcement. This is my 4th and last baby.(his 2nd) I would like to keep it on the low to well enjoy it more. So I’ve told him I’d only like to have him our other 3 kids who are 18,16,&10. Both his parents and both of mine. As far as visitors. I want to announce our sweet girls arrival after we get settled in at HOME! I would like to have it to be more intimate for my last. He’s okay with it and my kids the same. But when I tell others we won’t be announcing til after we get home they take it all personal cause I really don’t want any other visitors while we’re in the hospital. Am I being extra?