We’ve been close friends for several years and this happened a few months after he got his girlfriend. I didn’t know at first and we kept sexting every few months. It’s like a playful mutual game between us. Some of my friends say it’s morally wrong and to stop and I understand that. Some of them say it’s his business to handle the girlfriend part, it’s his fault for cheating in the first place.

I just don’t know what to tell him, he’s been one of my closest friends and we bond over so many things. I know stopping sexting won’t ruin it, but I feel so conflicted on right and wrong. He’s just so stunning and caring, he’s perfect as a friend and as someone I’d love to ride.

If this does end though and he breaks up with his girlfriend later, is it okay to do friends with benefits even if I told him we need to stop sexting?