Drunk ness.. THOUGHTS?

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So last night I got drunk with my friend and my boyfriend and her bf were sober.. i don’t remember much but I guess I ended up falling on th street ( I was wearing heels) and my boyfriend is upset with me and he cussed at me the day after (today) because he said that I wasn’t being classy and I shouldn’t be drinking acting like a high schooler.. but girls.. he wasn’t even trying to take care of me and when I told him why didn’t he just drag my ass back to the hotel when I fell he told me that he’s not going to be babysitting me.. 
I understand his part I wouldn’t want to babysit anyone either.. but if my boyfriend is fucked up I am taking care of him because I love him and that’s MY BOYFRIEND. MIND YALL that they ended up leaving me and my friend ALONE while we were drunk and we ended up at a hookah bar and the men later showed up but m boyfriend is mad at me. 
I don’t even want to go out with them today.. I’m on vacation what should I do? How would y’all handle this. I embarrassed my self I understand that.. but I was drunk.

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I mean, nobody likes dealing with a drunk that has to be babysat. I get where he’s coming from. Maybe not get so wasted so you actually know what’s happening around you? 🤷🏼‍♀️

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I’d be pissed if I were him too. I have very low tolerance for people who get themselves into situations and then complain when someone won’t help them. Yeah I guess it would have been “nice” of him to help you-but his side is pretty understandable too.

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I mean, the decent thing would be for him to look after you like you do for him but if he’s being like that then id stop taking care of him when he gets drunk without you. He can’t expect you to look after him if he won’t do the same back. I understand why he’s annoyed coz I’ve helped friends when they’ve had too many and its not much fun but they’ve also helped me if I’ve needed it.

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That's saying a lot if you don't remember much of last night. Maybe lighten up on the drinking a bit?? I'm all for having fun and getting tipsy, but you also have to be in the right mindset to take care of yourself and not rely on somebody to babysit you.
And some couples just don't get along as well as others when one is drunk and one is sober. Should he have put more of an effort into taking care of you? Yes. But you should have known when to stop drinking so you wouldn't turn into a hot mess. It sounds like both parties owe each other an apology, and the sooner you guys can do that the sooner you can go on enjoying your vacation.

Drunk ness.. THOUGHTS?

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