Desperate for sleep!

Shayna

So our 2.5 month old has started rolling over. Which is super exciting, but we’ve been told to stop swaddling his arms, yet his startle reflex is still so strong that it wakes him up every couple of minutes. Seriously this kid cannot sleep unswaddled but we don’t want to keep doing it since he’s rolling. A pacifier helps but as soon as it falls out he’s awake again. Help a tired momma out please :(