My oldest sons dad is terrible!! I left because he cheated consistently, abused me in every way possible and pestered my daughter beyond tears. Our son turns 4 in June, I left in 2016 and never looked back. Ever since then he hasn’t let it go!!! He sees our son every other weekend, we alternate holidays, he gets 30 days with him during the summer. He DOES NOT miss any of his time with our kid. We have to give each other notice by a certain date what days we want for summer visits (I get one weekend during his 30 day visit if he chooses to have him for 30 days straight) otherwise it’s regular visitation. I have my notice early, he threw a fit. I changed the weekend to the weekend of our sons birthday and he THREW A FIT. He thinks the world revolves around him!!! He calls me a cunt, a dried up whore, a pos mom, etc. Says he hates me and wants to cut my guts out. I literally do not speak to this man unless I have to. Literally. His wife and I handle everything communication wise unless it’s something I have to go to him about directly. He’s mad bc I left and that after we went to court last year he left with nothing he wanted and now he has to pay child support, when with our first orders he had the regular visitation and I didn’t ask for child support so I “ruined his life”. He’s spent years sugaring my gas tank, flattening my tired, kicking my car door in, coaching my 3 year old to say “mommy’s stupid”. I am fed the fuck up. 😤

I don’t understand how people can put every ounce of their energy into hating someone. How exhausting that must be. I hate that my son has to grow up watching his dad treat women like shit and badmouth the hell out of me. 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

Here’s an example: My oldest sons step mom texted me this morning showing me a rash on his arms. I said “I hope that isn’t Scarlett fever😩” she said she hopes not too, and since today is their day, the school would have to call them. Last fall, mine and my fiancé’s daughter had Scarlett fever. HAS NOT HAD IT SINCE. I told her if they send him home from school with a fever to let me know and I will call his pedi. She texts her husband (my ex) and tells him she thinks he’s going to get sent home from school, tells him that I thought it may be Scarlett fever bc my daughter has had it before. His response? “Well if that nasty bitch would clean her house we wouldn’t be having this problem.” My son has been there since last Thursday, bc Thursday’s are theirs and it was an extended weekend. Like??? How tf do I deal with this shit??? I cannot stand it anymore!!