I've let myself go

So today i went to visit my mother with my two boys both 2 under 2, as im walking in i see my two little cousins walking out one 15 the other 17. The 15 year old goes "well damn girl what happen to you" i was confused about what she was talking about and she tells me "I've never seen you looking this ruff" i just laughed and told her lifes been very busy with the two boys and my 5 year old. Then i walked into my mother house and looked at myself and felt disappointment. I've been trying the prepare for this family vacation and save as much money for the past 3 months that i completely forgot about myself. My hair was in a crazy bun, most of the hair falling out, i kept my nails done ALWAYS because i have a nervous issue and tend to bit them but i haven't had the time to do them so those are a mess aswell and i had black leggings with my hubbys shirt and slippers. I kinda felt offended and bad for myself 🤣🤣. Moms need they're time aswell and i hadn't notice i needed some me time till today. After having my son 10 months ago i haven't stepped a foot in the gym or got back on my diet lord i don't remember the last time i went for a jog. I've been so tired from work, school, house chores and the kids i forgot about myself. 😫 anyways rant over.