Mixed Signals + Hookup Storytime

Alright so i recently went through a breakup, a long breakup process for reasons, and one of my ways of getting past my ex was to start hooking up with other guys (10/10 decision making ik). I wanted to be less dependent on the ex for sex, since thats all he was being used for, as well as get the point across that i want to see other people. Like i tried to tell him but he still insisted that he was waiting for me to come back to him.

So i meet this guy at my school and we start talking. I was trying to get straight to the point be he is actually a chill as dude so it was a big plus. We end up planning a hangout so i pick him up from his house and we drive around.

It was overall a great time, he would open doors for me, there were a couple cute moments, great vibes all around. So im ready and set for this hookup right, and yes ik boys can play a part for a day but shoo he played his well.

While pulling out of the final destination before the hookup spot, i hit a car, because of course i gosh darn do, and it takes the police an hour to arrive and look at the dust on this woman’s car because apparently it was the absolute worst time of day to call the police.

So by the time all of that is over i have an hour before i have to get home and drop him off and the spot is 15-20mins away. He was all like “wE cAn mAkE iT a QuiCkIe” and i was down bcuz i just wanted something new.

Buddy gives me 10 seconds of dick after a quick makeout. No cap. Dissapoint. Asf. Highly offended by his performance but he is exactly my type. Tall, nerdy, black(and italian), funny, interesting, cu- i could go on 😍. There as also alot of “potential” for better performance... it was above avereage size is what ill say

Now in comes the confusion because your girl caught feelings after a good date and 10 seconds of intercourse.

So after this i was texting him pretty often because i genuinly enjoyed his existence but my doubt kicked in and i was all like “oo im prbly bothering him”. Me being the straightforward person i am, let him know how i was feelinn a lil nd he was like “nah youre good” type vibe.

But my insufficiency at detecting social cues was not buying it so i just started to text him less.

Texting vibe started with “ooou i nutted quick cuz it was so good lets run it back” and faded into a non convincing excuse whenever i would try to link. This was extreeeeemely annoying to me since my pet peeve is someone letting me bother them and not telling me. Basically overall cap.

To ensure that i was not tripping too hard, i consulted all of my close friends. I thought i was tripping but they all said it looked like light curves (a mix of males and females from various races so i had a good consensus of what was up).

So after all that the last excuse he gave me i responded to with something like “ok lol you can just let me know if you dont wanna hangout” followed by “sorru if i seem like im tripping but youre confusing to me” type vibe. Because again, i am a straightforward person and he is not my only source of intercourse so no worries in losing him. Except tht i caught feelings but its ok.

He was all like “sorry tht im like this” and i previously recieved a paragraph (about 4-5 lines of sc text) of him swearing up and down that he is just busy but idk man i just wasnt buying it.

After that i caught him in a lie by watching his story on a day when his brother was “coming over” but he was in a LYFT. Important sidenote, throughout this time period his public and private story seemed to be ranting about “being tired of chasing someone” and idk seemed like he was in love with a whole other person. When i asked about it he said it was just a friend.... big cap.

I ended up deleting him off of sc that same day because i was tired of all the confusion when i have other hoes.

At school he acts regular though as if i never removed him so maybe he didnt notice? Or maybe he just doesnt care and wants to be friendly who knows.

Like we come from two different friend groups but we like vaguely know of eachother cuz the groups are lightly connected yk what i mean. Like we hadn’t talked at all or been in the same area while speaking prior to us starting to talk that lead to all of this. Basically, it isnt like he is being nice just to avoid smoke like, he could ignore me completely and itd seem normal.

So when we started talking he would like walk by nd tap me nd do a lil cute wave and id blush like a bitch nd smile back. But we literally neverrrr spoke words during school besides me asking him to link over spring break(the hookup) and like another attempt to link.

He did that thing to me again and i was just confusedd cuz its like? Idk how i should take that. Ig he doesnt care and probably didnt notice. Im not mad at it just... confused

What do you guys think of any of this lol.

TL;DR —> my hookup started giving me mixed signals so i cut him off but he still acts like we’re cool.

Sorry if the flow is off i had to rewrite the first half bcuz oof