I NEED A PLACE TO VENT !!!!!!!!!!

To wrap my situation in a nutshell, My daughter is 5, I am the residential custodian, she goes with her dad, in a alternating pattern of Sunday, then the following week Friday-Sunday. We have a court order & he does t pay his child support, anyway, Lately, my daughter has been saying she doesn’t want to go with him & her reasoning is because he keeps leaving her in the car and he keeps bringing his male friends around her and it’s making her uncomfortable. The first time I brought it to his attention, was when In fact on the day he had to pick her up he had brought a man with him who’ve Ive never seen before ! I told him my concerns and he told me to not worry about her when she’s with him. I proceeded to text him when I got in the house & this was his response. talking to him is like talking to a narcissist. my concern is my child, if she is expressing concerns to me about what’s making her uncomfortable, what’s so hard about honoring that !!! And It’s to the point that I ONLY text him, so that I have proof of what is being said to me for court just Incase I have to file another motion. There’s a lot of other issues that have arisen during our visitation battle and we were doing fine for a while until my daughter told me this. Another reason I am so adamant about my daughters concerns is that he lives in Chicago. Chicago is NO place to be leaving a 5 year old in the car by herself or having her around men , who I have No idea of, or even what lifestyle they are living. I have no issue about what my child and her father do, but when my child brings somthing to my attention and I can understand where’s she’s coming from why is it so hard for the “Dad” to understand ! I’m not asking for to much. Please don’t have our 5 year old around men on the block, please don’t leave her in the car by herself & please don’t bring men with you to pick up and drop off our daughter!!!