Dodged a bullet...

Okay ladies... let me sum this up.

Me and my ex met August of 2016 he was separated and going through a divorce and we ended up catching feelings blah blah he didn’t want her to know about me so that she couldn’t keep his kid away from him before the divorce was final I’m like okay how long can it take right ? We move in together August 2017 ( she still doesn’t know about me -.- yes I know I was stupid for allowing that thank you I was also 19-20 years old At the time) so in October of 2017 I find out he cheated on me in June with his childhood friend and she’s pregnant. He can’t keep a stable roof over our head ( he’s 30 btw) so we’re bouncing from house to house until we end up renting a room from my besties moms house -.- we stayed there from February 2018 to October 2018, then comes October 10th 2018!)3 starts this HUGE fight at the store over stupid ass pizza. He gets physical with me I call the police etc he leaves well he goes to his ex wife’s house that night and they obviously have sex.. I move back to my moms and try to start over and he suckers me back in and I take him back in December of 2018 2 months after he left, well turns out ex wife is pregnant with their second son and due this August. He stayed until April 16th 2019 and then left the day I was supposed to go to my gynecologist to see why I wasn’t conceiving for all this time. I am so blessed that i dodged a bullet... I couldn’t see how toxic it was until he left. He has contacted me since trying to apologize etc but he’s living back with his ex and lying to me about it for no reason cause I honestly just don’t care. She’s gonna be miserable he’s gonna be miserable and their poor babies... I swear god saved me from having a baby by this idiot. I really thought that was love and now I know better. I know the warning signs and the red flags on what I don’t wanna put up with. Very traumatic for me cause he’s wishy washy but I put my foot down this time and he can Not come back not now not ever 🙂🚫🚫💯