advice

sooo i have anxiety and depression. i try not to talk about it bc i feel like every argument in my relationship is based around my personal issues, ex: feeling insecure, questioning simple things, social anxiety (it’s hard to form relationships with his friends) anyways we got into a fight about how he feels like i’m not doing anything to help with anxiety and depression. like i’m not helping myself/taking care of myself and it’s hurting my relationship. he says he’s not here to fix me and i know that. but the only tips he has for me is go to the gym or try smoking weed. i don’t like smoking as that makes my anxiety worse, and if i don’t go to the gym he says i’m not trying. i genuinely don’t know what to do.