Should I be mad that my boyfriend masturbates more than we have sex? Like he doesn’t like having sex with me anymore, but I know he masturbates at least 3 times a week. Is he just not into me anymore?

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I would be livid. He's obviously horny just not for me? I know it's a lot less effort to masturbate but jeez. I'd be extremely offended. 😞

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Maybe confront him about it, though FYI most men masturbate more than they have sex 🤷🏻‍♀️ but maybe say to him I know our sex life has dropped off a bit and I’d like to make an effort to rekindle it. Next time you feel the need to masturbate can I join in or give you a hand 😋

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I would definitely talk about it with your partner. Every couple is different, but in MY relationship, my partner hasn’t masturbated in over a year.. and that was because I wasn’t living with him at the time (I live with him now) and he wanted to “get off.” Whenever he feels horny, he kisses up on me and we have sex. He already knows that if he ever wants some, he can always get it and to just let me know. Personally, I’d rather him get satisfaction thru me and not thru his hand. My sex drive is high as hell so I don’t mind doing it whenever he wants to. I’d talk to him about it, maybe explain to him that your horny all the time (even if you’re not) and whenever he wants some he can always come to you. Hope this helped :)

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I mean I definitely masturbate more than sex. I don’t see the big deal. Masturbation feels different, and sometimes I’d rather have that feeling

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You can't be mad at something he does with his own body.. he doesn't have to have sex with and doesn't mean he's not into you

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It’s not that deep, plenty of people masturbate more than they have sex. It’s not necessarily a sexual thing either, some people masturbate as a way to relieve stress. Don’t be so quick to jump to him not being attracted to you anymore, especially if you haven’t even talked to him about it yet. Masturbation is not unusual

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I personally masturbate more than I have sex with my boyfriend so it’d be a little too faced if I was mad he did the same

Should I be mad that my boyfriend masturbates more than we have sex? Like he doesn’t like having sex with me anymore, but I know he masturbates at least 3 times a week. Is he just not into me anymore?

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