question

so prom was this weekend (Saturday) and me and my bf were gonna have sex. so he started fingering me and then i guess he did it too hard to rough and i ended up swollen and it hurts still and idk if it was just bc it was too hard or what?

is it? im 99.99% sure I don't have a problem or anything, but is that normal?

also i gave him head for the first time, and i loved it. w my previous boyfriends i hated giving head but oml, id rather give head that receive it