My husband is being amazing trying to restrain me from going every week to check on the baby. But here’s the back story, got pregnant last September was so excited but new the risks and statistics first scan went great at 8 weeks, and went in for our 10 weeks check up and baby died and it was called a missed miscarriage. And they even said the baby had markers for like trisomy 18 due to excess fluid. And we were blessed a month and half later with our second pregnancy, first scan went great and as we showed up to our 10 week scan my blood pressure was high because I was nervous but after seeing our baby made me feel so much better. And then we had our genetic screening a week later and everything checked out on the bloodwork and on the ultrasound. But now I am 13 going on 14 weeks in a couple days and I am freaking out I am trying to stay calm, but what got me so bad last time wasn’t the loss it was the fact that I thought I was still pregnant, I didn’t know the baby died, I felt fine we were planning the baby shower/gender reveal in the waiting room and then we got the news for the first baby. And I can’t help but feel like I can’t be excited because I feel like if I get excited and we go in in two weeks what if I the baby died weeks ago and I just never knew ? I know over dramatic I know, I just wish I could feel the baby or hear its heart beating for reassurance. But long story short I was wondering for those that did the genetic screening and everything checked out early on did you still end up loosing your baby? Or did everything check out fine? I know we have to go back in at 17 weeks to look for tube defects an such and just praying everything continues healthy praying so hard. I just would love some advice and experiences thank you .

From a soon to be mama freaking out