Pregnant

so I found out Monday officially that I’m pregnant. My last period was supposed to be 9 days ago, so I’m not too far along. I’m young and working full time, figuring out what I want to do with my life career wise, when my fiancé and I found out this news.

He wants an abortion but wants me to make the decision. I don’t know how I’d be after that but I’m scared it would make me resent him. But the truth is neither of us is quite ready for a baby. I’m torn between feeling we need to take responsibility for the unplanned pregnancy and have the child, as we planned on having kids eventually- having kids is very important to me, not so much to him - and praying for an early miscarriage.

Any advice?

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