He has no sex drive.

My husband is on a new medication that gives him absolutely no sex drive. None whatsoever. We’ve been married since last June, and for the last two months, we’re lucky if we had sex more than 3 times total.

I’ve talked to him about it and clearly he’s embarrassed about it, but I’m feeling super down about it too. I feel like I’m fat and ugly, and like I’m failing as a wife. I don’t know what else to do. He’s talked to his doctor and apparently there’s something they can change in his meds to help this, but I feel so terrible and more self-conscious than I’ve ever been.

I don’t even turn my husband on anymore. He’s just not attracted to me. It hurts.

Sorry, just needed to vent about this somewhere.